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  1. 1Chant the verse. Say the Sanskrit slowly and carefully.
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Śrīmad-Bhāgavatam · Text 3.22.13

Who is speaking and story frame

य उद्यतमनाद‍ृत्य कीनाशमभियाचते ।

क्षीयते तद्यश: स्फीतं मानश्चावज्ञया हत: ॥ १३ ॥

ya udyatam anādṛtya

kīnāśam abhiyācate

kṣīyate tad-yaśaḥ sphītaṁ

mānaś cāvajñayā hataḥ

Translation

One who rejects an offering that comes of its own accord but later begs a boon from a miser thus loses his widespread reputation, and his pride is humbled by the neglectful behavior of others.

Read Śrīla Prabhupāda's purport on Vedabase.io
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Understand it

Three study points drawn from the translation and purport.

Value Character More Than Wealth

  1. 1

    Svāyambhuva Manu warned that rejecting a suitable offer could lead Kardama Muni to seek the same thing elsewhere and receive neglect.

  2. 2

    The purport describes a father offering his daughter to a suitable bridegroom as a respectable Vedic marriage arrangement.

  3. 3

    Although an emperor, Svāyambhuva Manu offered his daughter to a poor brāhmaṇa living in the forest. Culture and personal qualities counted more than wealth.

Key points from the purport
  • The general procedure of Vedic marriage is that a father offers his daughter to a suitable boy.
  • Svāyambhuva Manu wanted to convince Kardama Muni, since he knew that the sage wanted to marry a suitable girl: “I am offering just such a suitable wife.
  • Therefore, in offering one’s daughter to a person, the culture and quality are counted as prominent, not wealth or any other material consideration.

Śrīla Prabhupāda's own sentences, chosen from the purport as its central points. Read the full purport on Vedabase to see them in place.

How it feels

Longing and service → Preparedness. Family devotion turns toward higher spiritual fulfillment.

Chapters 20–24 of Canto 3: Kardama, Devahūti, family and renunciation. An editorial reading of the story's mood, not the text itself. See the emotional arc

Further reading

Chapter 22: The Marriage of Kardama Muni and Devahūti

Kardama marries Devahūti with plans for later renunciation, and Manu returns home absorbed in Vāsudeva.

Back to this verse in chapter 3.22
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Word for word

Learn the Sanskrit words of the verse.

  1. yaḥwho
  2. udyataman offering
  3. anādṛtyarejecting
  4. kīnāśamfrom a miser
  5. abhiyācatebegs
  6. kṣīyateis lost
  7. tathis
  8. yaśaḥreputation
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Key ideas in this verse

The subject this verse serves and the themes it speaks of.

  • Manvantara · The change of Manus

    What gives human life its right direction? · Subject 6 of 10

  • Dainya · Humility

    Ego yields to insight, service and surrender. · Theme in SB 3.22

    In this verse: “humbled”, “pride”

  • Vātsalya · Parental affection

    Affection and protective concern for the Lord as a child. · Theme in SB 3.22

    In this verse: “father”

  • Moha · Material attachment

    The pull of ego, desire and impermanent relationships. · Theme in SB 3.22

    In this verse: “wealth”

Chapter themes come from the story phase this chapter belongs to.

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Live it

Take one thing from this verse into your day.

Ask yourself

When judging someone's suitability, do I value character more than possessions?

Practice

Notice and appreciate one person's good character today without referring to wealth or status.

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The story around it

The story this chapter belongs to.

Live this todayValue Character More Than WealthThis verse's lesson: one practice and one question for today

Study points are short summaries, not the translation. Confirm them in the original text and purport on Vedabase.

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