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Canto 12 · The Age of Deterioration · 13 chapters

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  1. 1Chant the verse. Say the Sanskrit slowly and carefully.
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  3. 3Find the meaning yourself. Before the translation, piece the meaning together from the words.
  4. 4Read the translation. Ask: what is the Lord teaching here, and how does it apply to my life?
  5. 5Read the purport slowly. Read it two or three times. Don't rush.
  6. 6Write down what touched you. Note the main points in your own notebook.
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Śrīmad-Bhāgavatam · Text 12.2.3

Who is speaking and story frame

दाम्पत्येऽभिरुचिर्हेतुर्मायैव व्यावहारिके ।

स्त्रीत्वे पुंस्त्वे च हि रतिर्विप्रत्वे सूत्रमेव हि ॥ ३ ॥

dāmpatye ’bhirucir hetur

māyaiva vyāvahārike

strītve puṁstve ca hi ratir

vipratve sūtram eva hi

Translation

Men and women will live together merely because of superficial attraction, and success in business will depend on deceit. Womanliness and manliness will be judged according to one’s expertise in sex, and a man will be known as a brāhmaṇa just by his wearing a thread.

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From Canto 10, chapter 14 onward, the translation and purports were completed by Śrīla Prabhupāda's disciples after his departure, and published by the Bhaktivedanta Book Trust.

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Understand it

Three study points drawn from the translation and purport.

Restore the Spiritual Purpose of Relationships

  1. 1

    Human life has the serious purpose of spiritual liberation, and marriage and child-rearing should support that purpose. In Kali-yuga, superficial attraction replaces this deeper aim.

  2. 2

    The soul gives apparent life to the body; consciousness is the soul’s manifest energy. Regulated spiritual marriage allows family life to please the Lord, who purifies material desire.

  3. 3

    Deceit becomes a means of business success, while sexual appeal becomes a measure of personal worth. A sacred thread or ceremonial dress alone may establish someone as a religious leader, despite ignorance of God.

Key points from the purport
  • Just as human life as a whole has a great and serious purpose — namely spiritual liberation — fundamental human institutions such as marriage and child-rearing should also be dedicated to that great objective.
  • Therefore the Vedic scriptures prescribe sacred marriage, in which a so-called man and a so-called woman may combine in a regulated, spiritual marriage sheltered by overarching religious injunctions.
  • In other words, in our modern, godless society the weak, superficial intelligence of humanity rarely penetrates beyond the gross physical covering of the eternal soul, and thus family life has in most cases lost its highest purpose and value.

The purport's own sentences, chosen from the purport as its central points. Read the full purport on Vedabase to see them in place.

Connected verses· 4

Quoted in the purport ofSB 6.18.40

It is said in Śrīmad-Bhāgavatam (12.2.3) that especially in this age, Kali-yuga, dām-patye ’bhirucir hetuḥ: the relationship between husband and wife will be based on sexual power.

Quoted in the purport ofSB 8.20.4

It is said that in Kali-yuga lying is a common affair: māyaiva vyāvahārike.

Quoted in the purport ofSB 9.18.23

Dāmpatye ’bhirucir hetuḥ. If the boy and girl simply agree to marry, the marriage takes place.

Quoted in the purport ofSB 10.7.13-15

Vipratve sūtram eva hi: in Kali-yuga, simply by putting on a thread worth two paise, one becomes a brāhmaṇa.

Each link is a verse the purport itself quotes, or a purport elsewhere that quotes this verse, shown with the purport's own words.

How it feels

Civilizational dread → Dispassion. Social and cosmic impermanence expose the limits of worldly plans.

Chapters 1–4 of Canto 12: The deterioration of Kali and universal dissolution. An editorial reading of the story's mood, not the text itself. See the emotional arc

Further reading

Chapter 2: The Symptoms of Kali-yuga

From the chapter summary, the lines nearest this verse:

After that, a new Satya-yuga will begin. As the Age of Kali progresses, all good qualities of men diminish and all impure qualities increase.
Read the whole chapter summaryBack to this verse in chapter 12.2
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Word for word

Learn the Sanskrit words of the verse.

  1. dām-patyein the relationship of husband and wife
  2. abhiruciḥsuperficial attraction
  3. hetuḥthe reason
  4. māyādeceit
  5. evaindeed
  6. vyāvahārikein business
  7. strītvein being a woman
  8. puṁstvein being a man
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Key ideas in this verse

The subject this verse serves and the themes it speaks of.

  • Ūti · The creative impetus

    Why do we act, and what keeps us bound? · Subject 5 of 10

  • Moha · Material attachment

    The pull of ego, desire and impermanent relationships. · Theme in SB 12.2

    In this verse: “material”

  • Dharma · Duty and righteous conduct

    Right action as duty, responsibility and devotion. · Theme in SB 12.2

    In this verse: “religious”

  • Vātsalya · Parental affection

    Affection and protective concern for the Lord as a child. · Theme in SB 12.2

    In this verse: “child-rearing”

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Live it

Take one thing from this verse into your day.

Ask yourself

How can my relationships support spiritual growth rather than remain centered on outward attraction?

Practice

Write down one way your family responsibilities can help you please the Lord, and act on it today.

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The story around it

The story this chapter belongs to.

Live this todayRestore the Spiritual Purpose of RelationshipsThis verse's lesson: one practice and one question for today

Study points are short summaries, not the translation. Confirm them in the original text and purport on Vedabase.

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