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Live the Bhāgavatam · SB 9.20.15

Manvantara· The Manus and right duty

Marriage by Agreement Within Vedic Culture

“King Duṣmanta replied: O Śakuntalā, with beautiful eyebrows, you have taken your birth in the family of the great saint Viśvāmitra, and your reception is quite worthy of your family. Aside from this, the daughters of a king generally select their own husbands.”

Śrīla Prabhupāda · Śrīmad-Bhāgavatam 9.20.15, translation

What the purport teaches

  • Duṣmanta praised Śakuntalā's reception as worthy of her family. The purport explains that her invitation indicated her wish to accept him as her husband.
  • Both desired marriage, so their agreement was natural. Marriage by personal selection or agreement is called gāndharva marriage.
  • Śrīla Prabhupāda explains that this marriage was sanctioned by Vedic culture. He distinguishes marriage by agreement from divorce by disagreement.

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